A recently divorced man is left feeling conflicted after attending his ex-wife’s elaborate 70th birthday party, where she self-published a book of poems for guests. Wondering if this is a common occurrence or an opportunity for attention, he seeks advice from Miss Manners on how to feel about the situation.
On a separate note, another reader seeks advice on how to politely decline being in posed photos, especially ones that end up online. Miss Manners recommends excusing oneself before the photo is taken or subtly making oneself less visible in the picture.
In another letter, a hairdresser shares advice on how to find a new stylist when moving away, suggesting politely asking women for recommendations. Miss Manners emphasizes the importance of being polite and considerate when asking for recommendations.
Lastly, a reader inquires about who should follow up to reschedule a canceled Sunday dinner due to illness – the host or the guest. Miss Manners advises the host to reach out and suggest a different date, expressing understanding for the canceled plans.
For more etiquette advice and questions, readers can contact Miss Manners through her website, email, or postal mail.
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